Thursday, September 24, 2009

FRIENDS

So you get good friends and you get bad friends..

Why do we keep bad friends? There shouldn’t be such a thing as bad friends. Those people should not be a part your life as they have no positive influence on your life.

I find that through the years you’ve had good friends and as time goes by and you as person grow into maturity, discover new things about yourself, set goals and objectives for yourself, you come to realise that there are certain friends that don’t fit the profile of the life you’ve set out for yourself. Some of those good friends now become bad friends because they haven’t taken a similar approach to life. And like my gran always says, “Associate yourself with positive people” and if your friends don’t have any good influence on your life…well…it’s time to move on.

Now this is where the difficult part comes, how do you cut off friends that have been there and now because they no longer have a positive influence on your life you need to part ways? Is it as simple as just saying “cheers, you no longer needed” or do you have to slowly but surely work them out of your life?

Lucky for me I don’t need to answer that question just yet!

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